Written by Tyana Brown-Robinson, BSc Psychology – Mental Health NTU Student

Hello!

As a Consent Is Everything facilitator, I went through a transformative journey; from battling social anxiety to discovering my voice in educating others about consent, it has all truly been an amazing experience.

Picture this: a university student who used to dread public speaking or group work. That was me. Throughout my academic years, I avoided presentations like the plague. But deep down, I knew I couldn’t let my fears hold me back forever. So, I set a goal for myself to overcome my anxiety and acquire the valuable skills of presenting public speaking, and teamwork.

Fast forward to when I came across the opportunity to become a Consent Is Everything facilitator. It felt like the universe was nudging me towards personal growth and fulfilment. I am really happy I decided to do it.

First, let’s talk about the skills I’ve developed. From overcoming social anxiety to confidently leading workshops, the journey has been empowering. Public speaking, once my weakness, is now becoming my strength. Why? Because, as someone aspiring to become a CBT therapist, effective communication is non-negotiable. And being a Consent Is Everything facilitator is the perfect training ground for that.

Now, let’s dive into the heart of it: volunteering. Let me tell you, there’s something incredibly fulfilling about making a real difference in someone’s life. Being part of the Consent Is Everything program is not just about ticking off a volunteer box but actively contributing to a culture of consent and respect. Plus, it’s a fantastic way to immerse yourself in the university community and give back to younger students.

Things have been smooth sailing since I applied to become a facilitator. The application process was easy, followed by an informal chat and comprehensive training. What impressed me the most was how inclusive and welcoming the entire experience was. As beginners, we were all in the same boat, learning and growing together.

Working alongside experienced staff members and fellow students has been instrumental in my development. My first workshop, guided by a seasoned facilitator, was a game-changer. Their mentorship and support made me feel capable and ignited a passion for educating others about consent.

Feedback is essential for growth, and the lead team nailed it. Every critique was delivered with kindness and clarity, empowering me to improve and refine my newfound skills continuously.

Now, let’s address the elephant in the room: why discussing consent is essential. In a world where boundaries are often overlooked, these conversations are more relevant than ever. Attending a Consent Is Everything workshop is not just about ticking a box; it’s about equipping yourself with the knowledge and tools to navigate complex interpersonal dynamics with respect and empathy.

But wait, there’s more!

Let’s focus on the cultural aspects of consent discussions. We know that these conversations may be taboo for some in different communities. Still, by fostering open dialogue and understanding, we can overcome these obstacles and create safer, more inclusive spaces for everyone.

So, why should you sign up to be a Consent Is Everything facilitator?

Because it’s not just about educating others; it’s about embarking on a journey of personal growth, making a tangible difference, and paving the way for a culture of consent and respect.

Trust me, the rewards are endless!

Let’s work together on an empowering journey where consent is key.

Until next time!

The consent is everything team are looking for current students to facilitate consent workshops from October 2024. If you are interested, complete this application form by midnight 19^th September 2024   https://forms.office.com/r/yUKxQZyDbs

For help, advice and resources whilst studying at NTU, take a look at the following for sources of support.
Support from NTU
Self-Care books in NTU’s libraries
Silvercloud: SilverCloud is our online system designed to help with a range of mental health issues.
Health and Wellbeing resources
NTSU Information and Advice service
Wellness in Mind: Advice and support for anyone in Nottingham experiencing issues with their mental wellbeing
Student Minds or Student Space
10 Keys to happiness
Mind
Papyrus
CALM